April 19, 2006
Schools Aren't Parents

The bucolic community of Key Peninsula in Pierce County is wrestling with who exactly is responsible for keeping teenage boys from doing, or contemplating doing, horrible things with guns.

The Tacoma News Tribune reports on a community meeting last night where conflicting views came to the fore, following the arrests of three boys age 12 to 14 for allegedly planning a deadly shoot-em-up at Key Peninsula Middle School.

It was the first community meeting about the purported plot, which officials discovered April 7. Three boys, ages 12, 13 and 14, planned for months to shoot guns outside the school May 1 to prompt a lockdown of the building, then set fire to the school using Molotov cocktails, according to court documents. They would then begin shooting selected teachers and students, the documents state. Prosecutors have charged the boys with first-degree conspiracy to commit assault with a firearm. They are being held in Remann Hall juvenile jail in Tacoma.

One parent quoted in the article says it's very much the job of school officials to catch budding psychopaths before they bust loose, and one fruitbat blames the district's focus on state achievement test preparation for inattention to adolescent psychosis. A third parent (at the end) squarely puts the onus on parents, not the schools, to nurture sanity, safety and a healthy super-ego in their children. I'm with her, and as a staunch gun rights proponent believe such others who are also parents must vigilantly educate youths that firearms used by private citizens are for sport, and self-defense. Period.

Posted by Matt Rosenberg at April 19, 2006 12:08 PM | Email This
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1. The nanny state is responsible!

OK, seriously. It is the parents, immediately followed by the parents who are responsible for their kids and teaching them right from wrong, morals, behavior, etc. In third place are the parents.

That being said, it is also the parents' responsibility to ensure any weapons they have around the house are safely stored and maintained, and if reasonable precaustions are not taken to keep weapons safe, parents should also be responsible for the consequences of actions by minors with these weapons.

Posted by: Fred on April 19, 2006 12:32 PM
2. Unfortunately in all to many instances two people who managed to reproduce are not 'parents' either. I have not settled on what a more accurate term for them would be, but parents certainly does not apply to them. Perhaps breeders, that way we could say that the pair of
'breeders' that are responsible for this individual being here limited their responsibility to just that and nothing more.

Posted by: JDH on April 19, 2006 12:44 PM
3. If schools aren't parents does it then follow that parents aren't schools?
I think I remember answering similarly worded questions in the dozens of standardized tests I took in s'kool.

Posted by: Reporterward on April 19, 2006 01:05 PM
4. I may be dating myself a bit, but in my High School there was the RIFLE CLUB( gasp). On club meeting days they would carry rifles and ammo on the bus and into school and stash the rifle in their locker.

Of course those were the days that chewing gun in class got you sent to the principle, talking back got you sent to detention, and a more serious offense got a suspension which severely embarrassed your parents. The wild kids had a hot rod and hung out at the Tastee Freeze after 9pm.

When I got in trouble at school, I was in trouble at home. My parents didn't run down to the school demanding an apology for smacking by b*tt, my b*tt got a second round.

The line was in a far different place back then, and there were immediate and effective consequences for crossing the line.

Now days there are no lines, everything is okay if it feels good.

The purveyors of this non-sense are shocked when a kid without boundaries crosses a line?

That is the whole point of parenting, training a kid to stay within societal bounds. When a line is crossed at school, the parents need let it be known in no uncertain terms what is acceptable.

When a kid goes that far it is clear they were never yanked up short on the little stuff, the lines were never made clear.

Posted by: JCM on April 19, 2006 01:06 PM
5. When they kicked God out of public schools, guess who came in???

Posted by: Me on April 19, 2006 01:16 PM
6. Manners & courtesy would be resurrected overnight if everybody was armed.

Posted by: SillyThought on April 19, 2006 01:28 PM
7. JCM,

I guess I can (sort of) one up ya. My alma mater, Eatonville High School, apparently actually had a class where students could learn to make muzzle-loading rifles. Unfortunately, this was in the '70s WAY before my time there.
However, as late as 1995, we drove to school with our hunting rifles and shotguns in the back of our pickup trucks during hunting season.
Granted we weren't all model citizens but none of us went Columbine on folks (yet).
Maybe if these Key Peninsula kids were sent out to shoot nutria instead, we could solve two problems at once.

Posted by: Reporterward on April 19, 2006 01:35 PM
8. Reporterward,

We should propose a muzzle loading making shop class for Seattle schools. Or maybe a gun smith course for Seattle Community Colleges.

Just to see the reaction.

Folks I know not that long ago carried rifles to school and back. Any rabbits spotted along the way went in the pot.

Posted by: JCM on April 19, 2006 01:46 PM
9. JCM,

Not only did we have rifle club, we could go out to Ft Lewis and check out rifles and get as much practice ammo 30, 30-06 and 308 as we wanted through teh DCM. The only stipulation was that we were to 'shoot up all we took' because there was paperwork req'd if we brought any back.

Posted by: JDH on April 19, 2006 01:46 PM
10. Only recently, I discovered that the college I attended (Albertson College in Caldwell, ID) has a skeet shooting club. Kind of surprised me!

Posted by: Peggy U on April 19, 2006 01:52 PM
11. I took my hunters safety course at the elementary / middle school I attended in the late 70's in northern CA. My dad drove me and my rifle to school every Saturday for several weeks.

My how times have changed.

Posted by: MSRedneck on April 19, 2006 01:53 PM
12. Peggy U,

Caldwell huh!

Spent a lot of time there, dad's family had a farm between Middleton and Caldwell.

Mom's dad was Pastor of the 1st Baptist when it was on the corner of 10th and Cleveland (moved 30+ years ago), now out on Linden just before Kimball.

Posted by: JCM on April 19, 2006 02:08 PM
13. JDH,

That is the most awesome thing I've heard in...30 hours. Although I can imagine that there were alterior motives that the US Army had for wanting young men to become proficient shooters and familiar with M-1 carbines, Garands and M-14's.
Maybe the folks down at Lewis should have a similar policy now. I bet recruiting would go up.

JCM,
I'm down with a program like that at S.C.C.C.P. Although rather than vocational arts, it would have to be under a cultural heritage title. I doubt they'd be allowed to make oppresive muzzleloaders like the Kentucky or Pennsylvania rifle used to exterminate our native peoples.
Probably would have to be Turkish or Mogul matchlocks. (I'd still take the class!)

Posted by: Reporterward on April 19, 2006 02:15 PM
14. Kip Kinkel's parents were prime examples of how not to deal with a troubled youth. And what the liberal rags continually gloss over is that little Kippy boy was stopped by an Eagle scout who had received proper weapons training. Ted Nugent is definitely correct advocating that we should all be allowed to carry weapons. Thugs will think twice about who they pick on if they know the intended victim won't hesitate to deposit lead in their thick skulls.

One reason car jackings were such a problem in Florida is that the crooks knew that regular residents could carry a weapon in their vehicle, but people renting cars would not. So thanks to a former Florida licensing law, it didn't take long for the scumbags to target rental vehicles. It took too many tragic events before the lawmakers stopped requiring visible ID that a car was a rental.

For those of you reading this who are all about gun control, put stickers in the windows of your car and home telling the world you have a gun free household. This will allow the hoodlums to better choose their targets. It is extremely rare that these cretins just act without warning. The problem is a society that is failing to teach personal responsibility and consequences to our young people. And, yes, my kids have received basic weapons instruction through proper channels.

Posted by: Burdabee on April 19, 2006 02:31 PM
15. I have not settled on what a more accurate term for them would be. . . . Perhaps breeders


That's the term Ken Hamblin used to use when he had a radio show. I think it's a good one.

Posted by: RBW on April 19, 2006 02:40 PM
16. My father had a Belgian Browning Pointer grade shotgun when I was growing up and he taught me how to shoot with that. I didn't realize what a special shotgun that was until much later. He had to sell it in order to get a downpayment on a house, and while I love the house I grew up in, I often dream about having that shotgun in my family.

It's parents that teach children to respect firearms. No one else.

Posted by: Palouse on April 19, 2006 03:26 PM
17. Well, folks, this is exactly what we get when the state decides that kids have rights and parents don't. Try spanking a naughty child nowadays. Bingo. The kid knows to turn you in to Child Protective Services, and you may even do some jail time. And the schools have completely abdicated their disciplinarian role within the classroom and on school grounds. We tolerate bad behavior, and what we get are little thugs.

Posted by: katomar on April 19, 2006 04:18 PM
18. Spank your kid and you'll find yourself charged with domestic assault. Then you lose your guns and can put one of those "gun free home" stickers in the window.

Or the rest of us can place one of the stickers in OUR windows and see if we get charged with hunting over bait!

Posted by: Hoplophile on April 19, 2006 04:47 PM
19. katomar,

I believe this is classed as ancient religious dogma, and therefore reject by modern secular leftist.

Do not be deceived: God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.
Galations 6:7

Posted by: JCM on April 19, 2006 04:49 PM
20. Well - I am stumped! A couple of years ago, I saw an article in the ACofI Coyote about how their skeet shooting club took some kind of award at some event. Now, when I check their site, I no longer see skeet shooting listed as a recreational option. They do have a paintball group (that's kind of funny!). They still have their skiing program, which was always pretty strong. However, I am also seeing a gay group, which was not there before, and other groups I would not have thought would exist at the school, which - at least at one time - was somewhat conservative. It is affiliated with the Presbyterian Church, after all.

Posted by: Peggy U on April 19, 2006 05:40 PM
21. I learned to shoot when I was young. I was taught how to show the proper respect for weapons by my grandfather. I also learned the proper respect for other dangerous tools, electricity, etc. And like other commenters, when I got in trouble at school, I got into trouble at home.

The moral ambivalence and apathy of the left has created a generation of parasites that expect the government to provide responsibility and entitlement.

If you don't know what your kid is doing, and especially if your kid is planning to shoot up a school, it's your own damn fault. That's why parents are legal quardians until age 18. Parents are supposed to keep their kids safe from harm and keep others safe from any harm caused by their kids.

I'm sure that the knee-jerk on the Kitsap Penninsula will be strong to create another government program, etc. What a joke. The parents of these kids ought to be rigorously questioned and fined if there was any negligence which contributed to the delinquency of their kids.

Posted by: Jeff B. on April 19, 2006 06:43 PM
22. I remember in about 1960 the Dean of Women at our high school assembled all the female students (known then as girls). At this assembly she laid down the dress code. No skirts above the knee. She told the young ladies that the back of a girls kneesd were the ugliest part of their bodies.

No telling how many girls ended up in therapy after that comment and the advent of the mini-skirt a few years later.

Posted by: Huey on April 19, 2006 06:57 PM
23. Jeff B:
If only what you propose were possible! Parents today are not in control of their children because the authorities forbid them to be. Runaway teenager? You'd think the police would pick them up and bring them back home, wouldn't you? Well, they won't. The little bugger has his/her rights, you see, and the parents cannot force the child to stay home. And yet, everyone clamors that the parents must be held morally and financially responsible for what the kid does when he/she is a runaway! I believe there is some legal procedure you can go through to protect yourself against liability for your out of control minor child, but am not sure what it is. The point is, when the nanny state allows parents to raise their own children, we will begin to see a change. Until then, expect more of the same because the moonbats love it! It lets them finance more programs to investigate what went wrong. I think that's called job security.

Posted by: katomar on April 19, 2006 07:21 PM
24. Well, it's not exactly true that you will go to jail if you spank your child. If no permanant damage was done, no lasting marks were left and if you were not angry at the time you delivered the spanking, you have just been disciplining that cretin. If you did the deed too late, as in the twit's teens, it was wasted. This is parenting work best used when they're much younger, say about one or two, well maybe three then. It makes a much bigger impression on them then. But you can't just let it go from there on either. It takes consistency and determination. Think of mama lion. Brat cat goes messing around, Brat cat gets knocked across the the fertile plain. And no fair using tools to administer the counceling either. And no whacking on them for an hour or so. Just one good, swift, swat. Also no good is telling them their gonna get it when dad gets home. Both parents gotta be ready to deal with it right NOW. Make it loud and sting. No chickening out and bringing a belt or some other tool to the session. The open hand is the most effecient thing here, as you can get the feel of the lesson better. Then, when it's done and the idiot says "I'm gonna have you arrested for DV", hand him the phone and tell him that RCW 9A.36.130(b)tells him he might not want to waste his time, and that of the very busy LEO.

Posted by: JT on April 19, 2006 08:54 PM
25. Oh, and that takes care of those who believe they should run away too. I clearly remember two people, very close to me, who advised that those who make attempts to scale the wall, would be dealt with quickly, and quietly. These people were older siblings of mine and that was a carefully studied warning.

Posted by: JT on April 19, 2006 08:58 PM
26. Where was the cal to control gasoline?

Posted by: vifer800 on April 19, 2006 11:01 PM
27. Matt,

"and one fruitbat blames the district's focus on state achievement test preparation for inattention to adolescent psychosis."

Are you really quoting flying mammals or are you gratuitously mocking what was an already silly statement? I always enjoy reading your "journalism".

Posted by: John on April 20, 2006 10:58 AM
28. Well, at least THEY can fly.

Posted by: JT on April 20, 2006 07:11 PM
29. I was incarcerated at Remann Hall in 1960 - I ran away from a home environment where I was being physically, mentally and emotionally abused, and as that was the only facility in Tacoma at the time to house children for protective custody, that's where I went...I won't go into details other than to say that the only outing I remember was when I was awarded a "scholarship" for good behavior to attend Junior Girls Sportsmans Camp near Fort Lewis, where I learned how to tie trout fishing flies, shoot a bow and arrow and how to shoot a rifle...among other things...

while INside Remann Hall I learned a lot more, less sportsman-like skills and ended up spending many years as a drug and alcohol addicted criminal...I am now clean and sober and in school earning my California Alcohol and Drug Addiction Counseling Certificate...

But, the point of my post is that Remann Hall and other places of it's ilk are NOT where we want to send children to learn to be good...and that it's EVERYbody's responsibility to guide our children...parents, state, school, neighbors, community services, you and me...all together.

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Posted by: Gayle on May 1, 2006 07:55 PM
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